with CONFIDENCE, COMMUNICATION, and COMMITMENT by MYAN Youth Staff Jeff Poulin
When you walk into a meeting, whether informal and with your peers on the couch, or very formal with a few bigwigs in a boardroom, what is the most important thing that you should have? A notebook? A folder? Well, those are important, but what has always worked for me is CONFIDENCE. If you carry yourself, speak, and generally have a sense of confidence, it will get you so much further when working with all different types of people. However, you need to keep yourself balanced between being confidant and putting others on the defense. If you keep that balance and add in a dash of friendliness and a general desire for being there, then you have the recipe for successful relationships.
Your next step is to keep the ball rolling through COMMUNICATION, both verbal and non-verbal. Some things to keep an eye out for are crossed arms (they show disinterest), use of humor (it can be offensive to some), and language choice (especially in e-mails and phone calls). All of these things provide an opportunity for miscommunication, giving the wrong impression and possibly undoing any work for your cause that has already been done.
If you have the confidence and have opened the lines of communication, your next step is to find the COMMITMENT. When fighting for a cause, whether it is in your home, your school, or your government you will probably be faced with some adversity. At that point, your job is to keep fighting! Just because one person didn’t agree with you, that doesn’t mean you should give up on something you believe in. Although it can be difficult, if you give up than others probably will too. Keep pushing and don’t let anything stop you!
Now that you have the CONFIDENCE, the COMMUNICATION, and the COMMITMENT, you are set up for successfully advocacy. As Mark Twain said, “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
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